These 7 rules that are dating work with army partners By Lizann Lightfoot “Ohhh…you’re dating? ” a co-worker asked curiously whenever I first pointed out my boyfriend was at the army. We paused. “Not precisely, we now haven’t been on a night out together for some time. ” “But you’re seeing each other, ” another co-worker chimed in. “Well, We haven’t seen him yet...